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Lightening-Quick Summary

Want a man to commit to a long-term relationship? Understand the importance of why men love to feel like heroes to you and use that knowledge to entice your man to work hard to win your approval and affection.

We men cannot resist when you need our help in some way (any problem or piece of advice- big or small). It connects us to you because we feel important to you.

"His Secret Obsession" PROs and CONs 

PROs

• The eBook seeks to teach you techniques on how to enhance each other’s happiness.
• Reveals many adaptable men mindset secrets you can adjust to your circumstances. The main male mind hack is the hero instinct- men love to feel like women’s heroes.
• Provides a few action tips early such as the short 12-word and 4-word text messages men cannot resist responding to.
• Fills you in on what we men need in a relationship to fulfill us emotionally...
• ... and what creates a disconnect with us.
• What makes us men decide to devote our lives to some women and not others
• References psychologists’ studies (like on page 122 to Douglas LaBier’s theory of “radical transparency”). Thus James, the author, combines his experience as a coach and some scientific research.
• Helps women at different relationship stages including searching for a new partner and after one begins to connect with a man on a deeper emotional level
• Addresses real, inner-man needs and encourages you not to fight human nature like on page 124 where James encourages women to acknowledge our need to feel like we provide our women with a purpose (HENCE the “Hero Instinct” once again).
• Action-oriented tips and strategies you can implement today.
• [Bonus eBook/audio] “Secret Text Message Formulas” provide ready-to-use-right-now text message techniques get him to respond, excite him, and make him miss you.

CONs

• He repeats many of the same concepts and action steps throughout the eBook which is good for learning retention but can get repetitive.
• All men want to feel like heroes, but not all modern men can relate to the military and war examples, I believe men nowadays get emotional during romantic comedies and love stories.
• Despite some applicable, real-life examples at the beginning part, the book spews too many similar-sounding terms and overloads you with theory (at least for me, but I love deep discussions)
• Not enough immediate follow-up examples in the first half of the eBook/course.
• Due to the information overload (over a rather long book for eBook standards- 213 pages) you will most likely have to re-read certain sections to digest the deep concepts.
• You will have to swallow some pride at times and give up on your girl-power in order to process and understand the concepts. Sorry. Us men desire feminine qualities BUT we also love strong, independent girls (I certainly do).